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Thursday, 11 October 2018

Juggling Being A Mum, Working & Having A Blog




Since the beginning of September Darcy has started nursery and one of those days is one where I don't have to go to work. I am very lucky in that respect as I realise not everyone is in that position. A decision was made at that stage that I wanted to take my blog up a level, whatever that level is I haven't really worked that one out yet.

I love that saying 'Life is like having a load of balls in your hands and learning to juggle them' and it really is so true. Some days I feel like boss lady and have all the balls juggled and other days I've dropped them all on the floor, there isn't really an in-between!

As I said, I am so lucky to be able to have one day to concentrate solely on what it is that I want to do. In this case, that is blogging. I do also look after the admin side of my partners photography business  and use this day also to work on that with that being marketing, scheduling posts for him or just replying to clients emails and messages. I tend to dedicate the morning to him with the afternoon to concentrate on my social media, creating content for my blog, emails & engagement. This is the one day where everything seems to roll pretty smoothly. However it takes more than one afternoon to look after blog, there are things I need to be doing everyday. 

I tend to set Darcy up with an activity which I keep my fingers and toes crossed that it will keep her occupied for more than 10 minutes and I prioritise whatever it is that I need to do. Sometimes that'll work and sometimes it won't. 

On my work days I decide to completely give up on my blog because I am at work for 10 hours and want to come home and just be mummy. I do however still make sure I am scheduling my social media so that i am not completely abandoning ship, it is so hard though because I do really want to put all of my effort in to my blog and I find it so difficult to work around distraction, right now the room is silent, not even a TV on which is unusual in this house! The only way that I can tell I get through it all is just lists. Lists and lots of them, my to do list is always as long as my arm but let me tell you there is absolutely nothing better than crossing something off of it. Ha!

Well that's my kind of back story if you like, I know there are people out there who are a lot more organised that I am so I asked a few fellow bloggers what they to do juggle everything well.

Don’t put too much pressure on yourself when it comes to blogging. When you feel pressured, you won’t enjoy it half as much. My kids and then my job will always come first and when I have a bit of spare time, it’s my blog a distant 3rd. - Pete

t's not an option available to everyone but I'm going back to work next week 4 days a week. On my day 'off' I've arranged childcare so I will get a shop delivered, cook and prep what i can for the week, do all the washing and cleaning and change beds etc so that I have minimal chores to do in the evenings and weekends. I'm lucky in that I get an hour lunch break so I'll eat lunch at my desk and reply to emails for blogging and do blog admin and social media then, that's 4hrs of solid blog time I don't have now with kids at home! I've always done my writing in the evening once babies are in bed. - Kate

Apps are a life saver. There are quite a few tasks you can achieve on your phone like editing images and promoting on social media. I do those when I have a spare 5 minutes. I draft as I go too but my main writing time is in the evening. I make sure I dedicate blocks of time to be solely attentive to the kids as my toddler started telling me to put my phone in my pocket.  - Victoria

I work full time, parent and blog as well as packing to move house at the moment 😳 I used to try and post a blog every week but it was getting too much. Iv dropped the schedule and just write when I have quality content to write about. This way I’m not pressuring myself to have a brilliant new post up every week, and the content is a lot more thought out as Iv had more time to do it. Don’t get me wrong I still struggle but it’s working better for me - Amy

I'm on maternity leave atm but it finishes in about 6 weeks. Blogging is already hard enough with 2 young children at home full time so the only time I get to blog is at night once they are asleep. It can be very tiring and because of this I haven't yet set myself a posting schedule because there's no guarantee that I can keep to it.
Because my youngest is still very young, I also draft up posts while I'm doing night feeds rather than 'waste' that time.
I'll probably be using my lunch breaks when I'm at work to get blogging stuff done too. - Stacy

I try to do tasks in batches. Although I often feel like I'm getting behind with things, I think it saves more time in the long run as my brain isn't having to take time to get into each task after switching. I try to take pictures of several products while my daughter has her nap and write while she's eating her lunch or in bed of an evening. - Laura

I recently decided to start single-tasking. When I tried to muliti-task, for example checking my work emails while I'm with my children on my day off or doing blog related stuff while the kids are around, I just felt stressed! It was always so rushed and I would just end up doing a rubbish job of all of them. Now if I'm with the kids I focus on them. If I'm at work or I'm blogging then I'm focused just on that when the kids are asleep or I set them up with some playdoh so I can get some admin tasks done during the day. It's such a juggle! - Gemma

There were some great tips here and definitely some I am going to take in to consideration.
Thanks for reading
Amelia
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